Your reactions are normal

After an emergency, feelings of anxiety, insomnia, irritability, or difficulty concentrating are completely normal. These are your body's natural response to an extraordinary situation. Recognising them is the first step towards recovery.

Normal stress reactions

Physical symptoms

  • Rapid heartbeat: pounding heart, palpitations
  • Trembling: shaking hands or body
  • Nausea: upset stomach, loss of appetite
  • Headaches: tension, pressure in the head
  • Extreme fatigue: exhaustion even without physical effort
  • Insomnia: difficulty falling asleep or waking during the night
  • Muscle tension: stiffness in the neck, shoulders, and back

Emotional symptoms

  • Anxiety: constant worry, sense of danger
  • Fear: fear of it happening again, hypervigilance
  • Anger: irritability, frustration over small things
  • Guilt: feeling you could have done more
  • Sadness: crying, sense of loss or emptiness
  • Difficulty concentrating: forgetfulness, mental fog
  • Helplessness: feeling nothing is within your control

Coping techniques

4-7-8 breathing

A simple technique that activates the parasympathetic nervous system and helps you calm down:

  1. Breathe in through your nose for 4 seconds
  2. Hold your breath for 7 seconds
  3. Exhale through your mouth for 8 seconds
  4. Repeat 4 times

You can do this exercise anywhere. It is particularly useful before sleep or during moments of panic.

5-4-3-2-1 grounding

This technique uses your senses to anchor you to the present moment, reducing anxiety:

  1. 5 things you can see (describe them mentally)
  2. 4 things you can touch (feel their texture)
  3. 3 things you can hear (identify the sounds)
  4. 2 things you can smell (focus on the scents)
  5. 1 thing you can taste (notice the flavour in your mouth)

Maintain a routine

After an emergency, routines provide a sense of control and normality:

  • Mealtimes: eat at regular times, even without an appetite
  • Sleep schedule: go to bed and wake up at the same time
  • Physical activity: even a short walk helps reduce stress
  • Social contact: talk to family and friends every day
  • Simple tasks: small actions like tidying up or cooking restore a sense of control

Limit news exposure

Constant information about the emergency can worsen anxiety:

  • Limit to twice a day: morning and evening
  • Official sources: IPMA (Portuguese weather agency), ANEPC (Civil Protection), SNS 24 (Portuguese health line). Avoid unverified social media
  • Turn off notifications: constant alerts keep the brain in alarm mode
  • Repetitive conversations: it is natural to want to talk about what happened, but constantly reliving the details can be harmful

Talking to children about emergencies

Ages 3 to 6

  • Simple, honest language: "There was a big storm and it damaged some things, but we are safe"
  • Reassure them: emphasise that the adults are taking care of everything
  • Allow regression: thumb-sucking, bedwetting, or nightmares are temporary normal reactions
  • Maintain routines: mealtimes, playtime, and bedtime
  • Play: play is how young children process their emotions

Ages 7 to 12

  • Answer questions honestly: do not make things up or play them down, but adapt to their level of understanding
  • Involve them in tasks: tidying up, packing bags. Feeling useful reduces anxiety
  • Validate feelings: "It's OK to feel scared. I felt scared too"
  • Limit news exposure: repeated images can be traumatic
  • Watch for changes: drop in school performance, withdrawing from friends, aggression

Teenagers (13+)

  • Treat as near-adults: share facts, involve them in family decisions
  • Encourage peer support: being with friends helps recovery
  • Watch for risky behaviour: isolation, alcohol or drug use, reckless behaviour
  • Normalise emotions: anger, frustration, and sadness are valid reactions
  • Offer autonomy: let them actively contribute to the family's recovery

Supporting others

How to help someone in distress

  • Listen actively: do not interrupt or give immediate advice. Just be present
  • Do not minimise: avoid phrases like "it could have been worse" or "you need to be strong"
  • Offer practical help: a meal, transport, help with paperwork or insurance
  • Respect silence: not everyone wants to talk. A quiet presence is valid
  • Ask directly: "How can I help?" is better than assuming what someone needs

Warning signs: when to be concerned

  • Prolonged isolation: refusing social contact for weeks
  • Substance use: increased alcohol, medication, or drug use to cope with stress
  • Suicidal thoughts: talking about not wanting to be alive, offering possessions, saying goodbye
  • Giving away belongings: distributing personal items without clear reason
  • If you spot these signs: do not leave the person alone and contact 112 immediately or SNS 24 (808 24 24 24, the Portuguese health line)

After the emergency: long-term recovery

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)

Some symptoms may persist or worsen weeks after the emergency:

  • Flashbacks: reliving the event as if it were happening again
  • Nightmares: recurring dreams about the event
  • Avoidance: avoiding places, people, or conversations that recall the event
  • Hypervigilance: constant state of alertness, startling easily
  • Emotional numbness: feeling disconnected from others or from yourself

When to seek professional help

Seek support if:

  • Symptoms persist for more than 1 month without improvement
  • Daily functioning is affected (work, relationships, self-care)
  • Alcohol or substance use has increased
  • You have thoughts of self-harm or suicide
  • You feel you cannot cope alone

Seeking professional help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Recovery takes time and everyone has their own pace.

Support contacts

Helplines (free and confidential, Portugal-based)

  • SNS 24: 808 24 24 24 (Portuguese health line, 24 hours, with psychological support)
  • SOS Voz Amiga: 213 544 545 (daily from 4 pm to midnight)
  • Mental Health Line: 808 200 204
  • Emergency: 112

Remember

Recovery is not linear. There will be better days and harder days. That is normal. Take care of yourself the way you would care for a friend in distress: with patience, compassion, and without judgement. You do not have to face this alone.